My
bucket list seems longer than I thought.
And so, I forced myself to choose the top five items that would make me
most happy before I leave this earth.
After so much deliberation, I surprised me!
Top 5: Dub a Korean Telenovela
Talk
about something totally out of the box and whimsical, this would be it! I enjoy watching these Korean series. The
story lines are simple and fresh. But
what makes them unique is the manner in which issues are tackled. I also find it easy to relate to the characters.
Why
are we so engaged by this pop culture? Maybe they reflect parts of our lives.
At other times, it would be because we want their lives for ourselves. The more cerebral among us would say it’s an
escape from life’s realities.
Whatever
the reason is, I like them a lot! So
much so, I want an active part in one. I
can’t think of a better way than to be the voice of one of the characters. It would be a thrill to watch them and hear
myself breathing life to a character. I
would like to be part of something current even at my age. It would give me another
layer of relevance at this point in my life.
Top 4: Go bungee jumping
Ever
since I can remember, I have always been afraid of heights. It’s the high open spaces that make me
“scared silly”. My knees seem to buckle
under me when I’m way up there. It
would take so much courage to even look over.
But
I am determined to overcome this phobia.
One problem though, I need to seek my doctor’s clearance. I suffered a compression fracture due to a
bad fall. Should I get the green light
then I definitely will take the plunge!
I’d
like to fully understand what total surrender means. A free fall is simply letting go without
qualms, without hesitation. Much like
life, what’s meant to be will happen! Some
things are just beyond our control. Acceptance
on your part will spell the difference.
Top 3: Learn Argentine Tango
Sure
I can dance! But I was never
comfortable doing a number in public. My
friends like to dance and they are really good.
Maybe that is what made me shy away from this art form.
For
me, Argentine Tango is a sensual dance. I
see the embrace as an illustration of the connection between man and woman; and
the leading, a gracious submission. I want to learn the intricate steps of this
dance that echo the rhythms of life. I crave
to feel the raw emotions its music elicits.
The marked counterpoints and articulations are simply divine. Improvisation is very characteristic to Argentine
Tango. This mirrors life whenever we
have to be on our toes to get over our hurdles.
Advancing
in years, we somehow forgot our passions.
I guess we nudged passion gently to the side to make way for the other life
concerns. It’s now time for our passions
to take center-stage. Whatever maybe our
reasons, now is the instance to embrace it!
Top 2: Bake a Soufflé
My
family claims I’m a good cook. I have
also dabbled in a little baking that produced pretty decent edibles. But the pièce de résistance of my culinary work would be the soufflé!
It’s a lightly baked cake made of eggs
and other ingredients that can both be served as a savory main dish or a
dessert. Many a chef swears it’s not
easy to produce one.
I am
so intrigued by its delicacy, its temperament and the patience as well as
skills to cook one. A soufflé
is an interesting metaphor of life. We each
had our shares of “delicate” moments that made us either “puff” in victory or “collapse”
under. It is at these times that the
temperaments of life reveal our true nature and disposition. Patience is very much needed to live in this
world. And lest we forget, a little dose
of humor would do us good.
Top 1: Start a Blog
I found my “little notebook”! Scribbled in it are my thoughts over anything
that caught my interest and attention over the years.
Of late, I have decided to organize them into writings and publish them
as Notes on Facebook. It was a pleasant surprise that friends found them as good reading.
My niece, Bianca, encouraged
me to start a blog. While this has
always been my top bucket list item, it is scary to do so. Baring your soul is never easy. To express my spirit in a way all my own
could even prove to be controversial. To
make public my kaleidoscope life is a test of boldness. But I'm quite sure I shall do it one day soon!
To
be able to do one or two of my Top Five before I finally say my farewell would
be great. I realize now I don’t need to
tick-off each one in my list. Daring to
achieve at least one is the essence of a bucket list for me. It’s the adventure
that is most important. A change in
perspective is to know myself better. To stretch myself beyond my limits would
ultimately lead to the real me.
So
cheers to everyone with a bucket list of his own! In the end, all our roads will merge to new
discoveries.